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Nov
11

don Ferruccio: looking good

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A niece of don Ferruccio’s sent me a few pictures of her to-me-he’s-famous uncle, and being that I didn’t have a portrait of him for my earlier post AND being that I never saw him in his youth AND being that even though I never saw him this way, this is the way he always seemed inside, happy and radiating energy,  here they are.   Evidently left was his better side.

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On the day he came to San Pantalon to be installed as parish priest.  It's a safe bet he already knew half of the people there, and probably more.

On the day he came to San Pantalon to be installed as parish priest. It's a safe bet he already knew half of the people there, and probably more.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

The reason for him to be perched on this primitive scaffold has not been revealed to me, but the fact that he's up there doesn't strike me as odd at all.

The reason for him to be perched on this primitive scaffold has not been revealed to me, but the fact that he's up there doesn't strike me as odd at all.

Most of these snapshots are from the Sixties, so he would have been in his 30s. Looking good.

Most of these snapshots are from the Sixties, so he would have been in his 30s. Looking good.

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Nov
09

Details on deceasing

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A reader has written to ask for some elucidation on my phrase “death notices taped up around the city” in my post “RIP don Ferruccio.”

There are several ways to announce the decession (it ought to be a word, so now it is) of your loved one.   You have your choice of any or all of them, depending on how much money you feel like spending.  

  • What I called a “death notice”  is a plasticated rectangle the size of an 8 1/2 x 11 sheet of paper with a photograph and some salient details concerning the deceased: Name, age, names of surviving relatives, the name of the funeral home, funeral details, and usually some additional phraseology to express grief, hope, and/or faith.  
    This is a typical design for the notices that are taped up; in this case, don Ferruccio's was tacked to the church door.

    This is a typical design for the notices that are taped up; in this case, don Ferruccio's was tacked to the church door.

    One of the most common ones translates as “No one dies as long as they live in the hearts of those who love them.”   I think that’s painful.   Anyone who has lost someone dear to them knows perfectly well that the person is dead, no matter how much love they may feel.    Makes it sound as if loving the person is practically the same thing as having them there in the flesh.   End of unsolicited opinion.

These notices are taped up around the neighborhood on convenient corners.   There’s  a corner near us which seems to be a common favorite; sometimes there are two or three stuck there.   Lino calls it the “Wailing Wall.”   But it is a very useful way to let people know what’s happened, and often little clumps of people will stop to read it and discuss the person and express feelings or opinions.   Sometimes, to save money, the family will photocopy the notice and tape that up.   I think that’s painful too.

There is hardly a day when at least one notice isn't taped up to the "Wailing Wall."  Perhaps the day-spa whose corner this is doesn't feel very happy about this, or maybe they don't care.  Nothing they can do about it either way.

There is hardly a day when at least one notice isn't taped up to the "Wailing Wall." Perhaps the day-spa whose corner this is doesn't feel very happy about this, or maybe they don't care. Nothing they can do about it either way.

The  cost of these plastic announcements is usually included somewhere in the total cost of the funeral, though the job of sticking them up  on walls  is completely up to one of the family members, or whoever feels like doing it.   I think it’s inexpressibly sad to see, say, the widower taping up the melancholy announcement about his wife on whatever corner seems right to him.   But then again, maybe doing it helps somehow.     What’s really sad is to see someone taking it down after the funeral.

However, you can also order them separately from a funeral home, even if you haven’t engaged them.   In that case, they cost about 5 euros ($7.42) apiece.

  • Your other option is a notice in the Gazzettino.   These are not really obituaries as they don’t say much beyond the barest basics of the situation.   However, the cause of death is never mentioned.   In some cases you can deduce it if the family has included a special thank-you to the doctors, staff and clinic/hospital.   Hard to mistake if the gratitude goes out to the oncology department.

 

A typical page in the "Gazzettino."

A typical page in the "Gazzettino."

Whether to put the news in the paper might be a very easy decision  to make when you   hear the price, which is  generally calculated by the line rather than the word.     In any case, the minimum is 300 euros plus 20 percent tax (360 euros or $534).   If you want to add a photograph, it starts at 150 euros plus tax (180 euros or $266).    

  • If you are not directly involved in the bereaved family, you have economy option: You can  add your name to the published notice to notify the world that you share the family’s sorrow.   For five names (“Laura and Federico with Annamaria”)    is 50 euros plus tax (60 euros or $89).   If you add more names, you spend  more money.

If the person who has gone to glory is sufficiently notable, a small article  will be published.   Presumably this doesn’t cost anyone anything, but I can’t promise that.   You   just never know in this world.

"San Pantalon: The parish priest don Ferruccio Gavagnin has died."  And so on.  Here as elsewhere, the photograph is almost always one taken at least 30 years earlier, or so it seems.

"San Pantalon: The parish priest don Ferruccio Gavagnin has died." And so on. Here as elsewhere, the photograph is almost always one taken at least 30 years earlier, or so it seems.

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Nov
05

RIP don Ferruccio

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One thing I noticed a while ago which gave me a hint that I was becoming even more broken in — like a shoe or a new pair of jeans — to Venice is that I began to look at the death notices taped up around the city.   I mean, as if it were possible that I might have known the person.

And by now, I have gone to numerous funerals for one degree of friend or acquaintance or another.   Sometimes they’re Lino’s friends, but I get to share.

Today I got a phone call that don Ferruccio Gavagnin has (finally) entered the more abundant life.   He was the parish priest of San Pantalon and a true Venetian who grew up in Lino’s neighborhood (San Barnaba) and even on Lino’s street (Calle Lunga).   Lino knew him, but was at least a decade behind him, so they didn’t have much connection.  

The funeral is going to be Monday, which isn’t good because   I’m going to be busy Monday — but I imagine there will be quite a scene.   He was 80 years old but he seemed at least 30 years older than that  — I think time just got tired and  lost track of him.   But in spite of pain and infirmity toward the end he carried on  through sheer, unadulterated, industrial-strength grit.    He was like a goddam racehorse who keeps going on a broken leg.  

"The Martyrdom and Apotheosis of San Pantalon," by Venetian painter Gian Antonio Fumiani. The sheer size of this creation overwhelms smaller works down at ground level by artists such as Veronese and Veneziano who are several grades above him.

"The Martyrdom and Apotheosis of San Pantalon," by Venetian painter Gian Antonio Fumiani. The sheer size of this creation overwhelms smaller works down at ground level by artists such as Veronese and Veneziano who are several grades above him.

In the last few years of his life he was very ill with assorted maladies, which I never completely understood.   I believe it started with a small stroke one night.   After his ancient mother died (she had lived  with him in the rectory, where he took care of her; “Priests are good at taking care of other people, but they never seem to take care of their own family”), he lived alone for several years until the night  he  suffered some brainal lapse which caused him to lose his balance and fall down the stairs.  

The stairs are stone, narrow, and  extremely steep.   He lay there all night  with nobody to even imagine he needed help, much less provide it.   The next morning the sacristan came to  work (Odd, the door is still closed?) and found him lying there, all busted up.   Things got progressively worse, as you might imagine.   I’ll just leave it at that.   But he really hung on, even when he was finally in a wheelchair (they  installed a transporter on the staircase).   Retire?   Surely you jest.

There were times when I’d go by the church in the afternoon, when it’s open to the public.   People come in to look at the painting (not a fresco) on the ceiling.   It’s the church’s main attraction,  a ponderous Baroque effort  depicting The Martyrdom and Apotheosis of San Pantalon by Gian Antonio Fumiani (painted between 1680-1704) and it is cautiously described as being  perhaps/probably the largest oil painting in the world.   It’s not at all beautiful but it’s  as big as your average Mongolian steppe.  

Don Ferruccio would be sitting there at a desk in the back, to the left.   He might be waiting for the kids to show up for catechism,  but he was mainly keeping an eye on the place as  tourists wandered in and out.   He would have made an excellent  Electrical/Operations Officer on a nuclear submarine, or maybe a meat inspector for the Department of Agriculture.   Whatever you can think of that requires a relentless level of vigilance.  

In the winter he would still  be at his post,  wrapped up in a heavy coat.   We would sit there in the enveloping chill, bantering — he was very good at banter, especially the pretend-insulting kind — but our banter was limited by two things.   One, he had a way of masticating his words that made it hard to understand him, and the other was the way he kept interrupting the conversation with comments  sotto voce on the visitors and what they were doing,  and the fact that virtually all of them entered and left without leaving so much as one (1) coin in the offering box.  

I often wondered how he must have appeared to the unwary tourists who stepped in out of mere curiosity or to have a chance to sit down for five minutes.   There he was, a shrunken, gristly little figure bundled in black, giving sudden sharp thwacks on the desk with his cane to draw their attention to whatever error they were  about to commit.   Don’t go there!   Don’t touch that!   I considered myself his friend but he would make even  me jump.

Inexplicably, I have no photograph of him to add here.     But I will gladly contribute what I wrote about him in 1994 (“Venice: More than a Dream,” National Geographic, February, 1995):

“Meanwhile, somewhere in or around the church of San Pantalon, don Ferruccio Gavagnin is also hard at work.   He is always working: He’s the priest of what is technically the smallest parish in Venice, but his congregation won’t stay small.   ‘The other priests are a little bit jealous,’ he says.   ‘But I can’t refuse people.   If they need help, they know they can find me.’

The facade of the church of San Pantalon.

The facade of the church of San Pantalon. Don Ferruccio lived in the ochre-colored house to the left.

Don Ferruccio has been at San Pantalon for the past 26 of his 41 years as a priest [today that would be 41 of his 56].   He’s balding, compact, and his keen, kind eyes framed by steel-rimmed glasses miss nothing.   He has a tendency to bustle, and a let’s-get-on-with-it way of talking.   He’s up at 5:00 to pray, do paperwork, and look after his 93-year-old mother, who lives with him in the small house attached to the church.   At 7:00 he opens the church, and eventually, being a shepherd, he heads out to check on his flock.

In and out of shops and cafes, a quick cup of coffee, a quick word, a smile, a wave — into the butcher shop, into the optician’s shop, into the firemen’s headquarters (he’s their parish priest).   We stride down the street past the church of San Silvestro — “The ugliest church in Venice” — we pause in the church of the Frari, where he speaks with one of the friars about the bishop’s impending visit.   I notice that the friar smiles at him with particular coolness — the interparish rivalry continues.

There’s always too much to do.   Catechism classes, visiting the sick in four different hospitals, planning a funeral or a wedding.   ‘Yesterday was a hard day, and at the end of the day I received two young people who asked me to marry them.   They met at a hospital — they both had an eye disease.   I told the boy, ‘You probably didn’t see her properly.’

You can’t lure Don Ferruccio into a long conversation; he has no time, and less inclination.   Favorite Bible story?   He twinkles at me; not a chance.   Besides, ‘I don’t believe in words,’ he tells me briskly.   ‘I believe in deeds.   Words are not important.’

There is a long, slender crack in the austere, dark-brick facade of the church of San Pantalon.   Don Ferruccio says it’s always been there; a surveyor recently reported that it might, or might not, get worse over time.   As long as don Ferruccio is there, I don’t think it would dare get worse.”

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